“Your problem is how you are going to spend this one and precious life you have been issued. Whether you’re going to spend it trying to look good and creating the illusion that you have power over circumstances, or whether you are going to taste it, enjoy it and find out the truth about who you are.”

— Anne Lamott

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  • Trash Mountain and Post Therapy Cakes

    Every time I am at my therapist’s (digital) office, I cry. I cry about the little things, tiny pieces of trash that feel like a mountain. Visually, I think of it like a small trash bag with litter trailing behind… Continue reading

    Trash Mountain and Post Therapy Cakes
  • Here I Go Again with the Shoulds

    I should have gone to my swim class. I did not. I should have gotten my labs done. I did not. And so I sit on the couch and lounge around, scrolling, scrolling until I decide I’d listen to a… Continue reading

    Here I Go Again with the Shoulds
  • Seasons and Uh, Routines

    Since some emotional upheavals in 2023–like you know, rage, I’ve come to really slow down and take stock of my inner world. I had some grand plans in 2024 that didn’t quite go into (obvious) effect until early this year.… Continue reading

    Seasons and Uh, Routines
  • Gouda Coulda Woulda

    On my first day in the specialty cheese department, I began sampling various cheeses, learned about their characteristics, and reflected on the growth of my food writing skills. Continue reading

    Gouda Coulda Woulda
  • Figs and Rain

    I call it the “vast second,” when a split second feels like it’s been stretched for longer. It happens during very rare moments. When you’re fully present and in awe. That noticeable stretch of time started with a single piece… Continue reading

    Figs and Rain
  • Unbitched and Un-unhinged

    Yes I’m sorry, I keep saying the word bitch these days, or maybe most times (which almost got me in trouble when I was a junior in highschool.) Ehem. Anyway, I’m just here to say that I’m not a bitch… Continue reading

    Unbitched and Un-unhinged
  • Stews for the Blues

    It’s still winter here in Vancouver and it’s always the best time to hit up my favourite spots for soup and stews. I”m a creature of habit and I have these places I always go to for a comforting meal.… Continue reading

    Stews for the Blues
  • Exploring Vancouver’s West End | Brunch and Beach Walks

    Choosing a brunch spot in Vancouver’s many neighbourhoods can be a challenge. I often go to my usual spots like Jam Cafe, Medina Cafe or OEB. But recently, I’ve been visiting the West End’s Denman Street more frequently and was… Continue reading

    Exploring Vancouver’s West End | Brunch and Beach Walks
  • BURNABY| 4 THINGS TO DO FOR A DAY

    While going through Reddit subgroups, I was shocked to discover that some people called the City of Burnaby, “Borenaby”. I love Burnaby’s laid-back, suburban feel while still offering so many hidden gems and great dining options. Here’s what I usually… Continue reading

    BURNABY| 4 THINGS TO DO FOR A DAY
  • I’m Wintering and You Won’t Leave me Alone

    For the most part, many of my friends know that I tend to disappear for weeks on end when my social battery is low. But sometimes there are one or two people who think that my being active on social… Continue reading

    I’m Wintering and You Won’t Leave me Alone